tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post1120908934398795332..comments2023-09-09T08:58:16.226-05:00Comments on Deepest Darkest Thoughts: How Long?Trueselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-73647023059090412482007-12-18T08:25:00.000-06:002007-12-18T08:25:00.000-06:00Nancy - Thank you for your kind words. It is amaz...Nancy - Thank you for your kind words. It is amazing to me how much harder it is than I think it ought to be. Damned emotions.<BR/><BR/>Serenity - Why displace the anger? Because somehow I believe that it is my fault. I can't believe I just said that. Pathetic.<BR/><BR/>Summer - You make very valid points. Thank you.<BR/><BR/>Fiona - Harsh words maybe, but I do need to hear them (or read Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-80604062968655331032007-12-14T23:23:00.000-06:002007-12-14T23:23:00.000-06:00For me the moment to tell my husband that we need ...For me the moment to tell my husband that we need to separate and what my plan were came unexpectedly. We were arguing and he said something along the lines of "You are welcome to leave at any time." Rather than reply harshly, I calmly said "And I plan to do so, once a few things are in place." I proceeded to tell him that I thought we should separate and how and when I thought that should happenBunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12955817346800123054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-3538446901344123802007-12-14T11:01:00.000-06:002007-12-14T11:01:00.000-06:00I hate that quote, because it's sooo not true. Wo...I hate that quote, because it's sooo not true. Words may not break your bones, but they hurt your soul, they break "things" deeper than sticks...<BR/><BR/>To this day, whenever I think of how little my mother did to protect me... let's just say I don't arbour deep love for her at those moments.<BR/><BR/>...remember that next time you wonder how much longer... :-(stinkypawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04418558395508830375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-29188960585257835052007-12-14T07:59:00.000-06:002007-12-14T07:59:00.000-06:00For f's sake TS, you know it's all wrong, your son...For f's sake TS, you know it's all wrong, your son is hurting, you know the answers and you STILL won't do something?<BR/><BR/>Hard words, I know but you talk about a line in the sand YOU drew? Just bloody move it.<BR/><BR/>Bullying takes two...one to bully and one to accept being bullied. There is a door to your home, use it.<BR/><BR/>If not for you then for N, he deserves protection from at Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727596416170770024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-13407980907398607342007-12-13T21:35:00.000-06:002007-12-13T21:35:00.000-06:00The thing is by staying in this siutation, N will ...The thing is by staying in this siutation, N will either grow up and be a bully himself or let others bully him. Kids learn from their parents. Think of yourself and son, you have a long life ahead of you. I know it's hard but once you're on your own you'll wonder why you didn't do it sooner.Summerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12980252502053602258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-90001114495237610102007-12-13T19:08:00.000-06:002007-12-13T19:08:00.000-06:00Why exactly are you displacing the anger onto your...Why exactly are you displacing the anger onto yourself instead of onto W where it belongs? Assuming he is the one doing the name calling and bullying, why on earth are YOU the shithead? Stop this AT ONCE. Place the blame where it belongs, and then place the onus for action on yourself,where it belongs. <BR/>How much longer? Only you know the answer to that one. But only your action will Serenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01529721099212540848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-37640035177932734392007-12-13T12:10:00.000-06:002007-12-13T12:10:00.000-06:00Don't beat yourself up about not being able to mak...Don't beat yourself up about not being able to make the break. I always said I'd never stay with someone who cheated on me. But when that moment came, I still stayed. I stayed through everything that I had once thought was a "boundary" for me. Then, almost without warning, I was ready. I was done. I wanted out, I made arrangements, I saw a lawyer and after the requisite months of stress Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06584582384619096479noreply@blogger.com