tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post116101353067107531..comments2023-09-09T08:58:16.226-05:00Comments on Deepest Darkest Thoughts: So What's Up with BJ and Me?Trueselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-1161265292164422712006-10-19T08:41:00.000-05:002006-10-19T08:41:00.000-05:00fb,It's a lifelong struggle for me, that unconvent...fb,<BR/>It's a lifelong struggle for me, that unconventional/conventional thing. Maybe someday I'll be strong enough to just be me and say to hell with what others think. And then again maybe someday there will be peace in the Middle East too.Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-1161164700742326392006-10-18T04:45:00.000-05:002006-10-18T04:45:00.000-05:00Sorry, a bit late on this one. Just wanted to say ...Sorry, a bit late on this one. Just wanted to say I can empathise with so much here. "...I have spent my entire life being unconventional while trying to show the world how conventional I am."- Story of my life! Liking and loving... I hope those two elements stay with you both and get you past all those obstacles, through the honeymoon and out the other side to a happy 'real life' together.freebirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17745492522820347949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-1161141955890363642006-10-17T22:25:00.000-05:002006-10-17T22:25:00.000-05:00bj,Nope, I won't be calling you sweet. Internet p...bj,<BR/>Nope, I won't be calling you sweet. Internet predators are never sweet. ;-)Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-1161137527268095622006-10-17T21:12:00.000-05:002006-10-17T21:12:00.000-05:00Damn, you're awfully close to making me sound like...Damn, you're awfully close to making me sound like a nice guy. Next thing you know you'll be calling me sweet or something. That's where I draw the line. ;-)Sandmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05987840908368680016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-1161094837892771332006-10-17T09:20:00.000-05:002006-10-17T09:20:00.000-05:00fl & cat,Thank youEmily,Your comment is inspiring ...fl & cat,<BR/>Thank you<BR/><BR/>Emily,<BR/>Your comment is inspiring me to another post, one that will further expand on W as having become an angry old man, and how he changed from the man I knew and liked in the early years of our relationship. Coming soon to a blog near you. . .<BR/><BR/>Rae & Fiona,<BR/>To address the honeymoon phase, I'll just say that I have approached this with Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-1161046404667174472006-10-16T19:53:00.000-05:002006-10-16T19:53:00.000-05:00I agree totally with the loving and liking. I kno...I agree totally with the loving and liking. I know what you mean!<BR/><BR/>I love unconventional - honey my first date with the guy I was involved with for two years, was us meeting at Los Angeles airport (me from Hong Kong, him from Virginia) and travelling to Maui together where we spent a week in a wonderful hotel. It's something to laugh about together I think.<BR/><BR/>As for honeymoon Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727596416170770024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-1161039527155246432006-10-16T17:58:00.000-05:002006-10-16T17:58:00.000-05:00All the things you pointed out sound like honeymoo...All the things you pointed out sound like honeymoon phase type things are rarely last. Enjoy it while you can.Raehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18095853635578220697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-1161033669289638832006-10-16T16:21:00.000-05:002006-10-16T16:21:00.000-05:00I think you have said something really fundamental...I think you have said something really fundamental here about the liking.<BR/><BR/>I love my Big Dude and I know he loves me. But sometimes I think our relationship rests more on the friendship than on the romantic love side of things. I realize this may be partly because sex is usually not a big part of our lives together. <BR/><BR/>But with romantic love and passion, a lot of it is really Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16960808094968837047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-1161019699590523252006-10-16T12:28:00.000-05:002006-10-16T12:28:00.000-05:00Details aren't necessary I am just happy to see th...Details aren't necessary I am just happy to see things are going well for you...Cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04429112740298181455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-1161018223528037212006-10-16T12:03:00.000-05:002006-10-16T12:03:00.000-05:00You have started down a scary, exciting, fun, and ...You have started down a scary, exciting, fun, and dangerous road. I wish you all the best.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com