tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post1678221888338185513..comments2023-09-09T08:58:16.226-05:00Comments on Deepest Darkest Thoughts: Recurring ThoughtTrueselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-74740225921258437302007-10-14T12:11:00.000-05:002007-10-14T12:11:00.000-05:00FB - No I don't think he will.SM - Worry not, the...FB - No I don't think he will.<BR/><BR/>SM - Worry not, there's not much that can prevent me from venting when I need to vent. :-)<BR/><BR/>Emily - Nice to hear from you. No things aren't as I would like them, and I'm just working on accepting that. Sometimes I accept it better than others.Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-17875054868027524422007-10-13T21:50:00.000-05:002007-10-13T21:50:00.000-05:00Dear TrueselfI know I haven't really commented no ...Dear Trueself<BR/><BR/>I know I haven't really commented no this BJ thing, and I'm sorry about that. I have been thinking of you.<BR/><BR/>As far as I can see (and I only read BJ occasionally), BJ is pretty much obsessed right now with doing exactly what <I>he</I> wants. He thinks he's been deprived for a long time of everything he wants in life, has become desperate that things will always be Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16960808094968837047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-67483622910456578762007-10-13T12:40:00.000-05:002007-10-13T12:40:00.000-05:00Ah, venting. I have done that once or twice mysel...Ah, venting. I have done that once or twice myself. Please don't allow my comments to ever interfere with a good venting session.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-14240870799376157002007-10-13T03:32:00.000-05:002007-10-13T03:32:00.000-05:00Just a thought to add to the mix (although Serenit...Just a thought to add to the mix (although Serenity has slightly stolen my thunder!)... Do you really think that someone who has to resort to surgery to stop himself overeating is going to have the willpower to stay off the booze?freebirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17745492522820347949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-22369743154251101762007-10-12T13:34:00.000-05:002007-10-12T13:34:00.000-05:00Oh honey the thing is, he's so not going to cut ba...Oh honey the thing is, he's so not going to cut back on the beer, he is seriously fucked with that whole surgery thing, and i gotta stop commenting over there on his blog because i cannot keep my mouth shut.<BR/><BR/>You're not obsessing, but just working through some shit. I'm doing it too, I just haven't written it out.. yet...<BR/><BR/>It's not that he isn't that into you, he's just waaaay Serenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01529721099212540848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-16019017878844849422007-10-12T08:48:00.000-05:002007-10-12T08:48:00.000-05:00JB - Yep, I am seriously that delusional.Bunny - D...JB - Yep, I am seriously that delusional.<BR/><BR/>Bunny - Don't be hard on JB. She means well I think. You are absolutely right in your analysis of the situation and intellectually I know all of that. It's the emotional side of me that I was venting here.<BR/><BR/>SM - As I say this was just a bit of venting. I do understand that love isn't enough to make people change. I also believe that Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-74993517759179264852007-10-11T18:51:00.000-05:002007-10-11T18:51:00.000-05:00bunny is definitely on top of this one. Doing thi...bunny is definitely on top of this one. Doing things for other people just doesn't work. Exchanges work to some degree (work for a paycheck is a good example). Other than that, people just have to do what they do for themselves (get off drugs, alcohol, food, cigarettes, etc, etc).<BR/>If anyone ever figures out how to make love (or lust) enough to really motivate someone to an action (like Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-14576446002457855292007-10-11T15:50:00.000-05:002007-10-11T15:50:00.000-05:00Ok, Jaded was a bit harsh there. I kinda see where...Ok, Jaded was a bit harsh there. <BR/><BR/>I kinda see where BJ was coming from though. He won't do it for you, but he'll do it for himself - which is who he should be doing it for. KWIM? My husband wants me to lose weight and exercise and the more he hounded me about it the more I resisted. But I'm doing it now (and I love the exercise now, I really do) and I'm not doing it for him, I'm doing itBunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12955817346800123054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-24939089236987631382007-10-11T15:11:00.000-05:002007-10-11T15:11:00.000-05:00Are you seriously that delusional?It's been said b...Are you seriously that delusional?<BR/><BR/>It's been said before, he's just not into you. <BR/><BR/>It's sad how you simper after him. <BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>Move on.Jaded Bunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15773908596002312237noreply@blogger.com