tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post1716386561310772364..comments2023-09-09T08:58:16.226-05:00Comments on Deepest Darkest Thoughts: What It Took/Takes/Will TakeTrueselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-34745489960574845192008-04-08T01:37:00.000-05:002008-04-08T01:37:00.000-05:00Just because you you fail at something, however im...Just because you you fail at something, however important, it doesn't mean that YOU are a failure. Faiilure is something we do, it isn't something we are. <BR/><BR/>But I can be hard on myself, too.<BR/><BR/>One thing that helps me when I am in this mode is asking myself what I would think of someone else in the same situation. Inevitably, I think of that person as just human and have plenty ofEmilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16960808094968837047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-34567026429339588302008-04-07T22:41:00.000-05:002008-04-07T22:41:00.000-05:00Andrea - Yes indeed, time is definitely a piece of...Andrea - Yes indeed, time is definitely a piece of what it will take. Time and seeing over time that he has become trustworthy.<BR/><BR/>Bunny - I did try to give this one my all. Unfortunately, my all just wasn't enough for this situation.<BR/><BR/>FB - So glad I could write your story as well as mine. LOL<BR/><BR/>Val - Good for you. Don't let the "failure" perspective get to you. It only Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-52726758178353258622008-04-05T11:51:00.000-05:002008-04-05T11:51:00.000-05:00Wow -- I can relate sistah!But I steadfastly try n...Wow -- I can relate sistah!<BR/>But I steadfastly try not to let the "failure" perspective get me down...Valhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03152215204773184788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-91953192387076510622008-04-05T07:33:00.000-05:002008-04-05T07:33:00.000-05:00Wooooo-woooooo, parallel universe at work again he...Wooooo-woooooo, parallel universe at work again here TS! <BR/>I won't bother writing a post - I'll just send people over here! LOL<BR/><BR/>Seriously though, yes, Andrea's got it - time, dear TS, time.freebirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17745492522820347949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-13962029382759152152008-04-04T18:52:00.000-05:002008-04-04T18:52:00.000-05:00You are not a failure. You and W both failed at th...You are not a failure. You and W both failed at this marriage, but one failure cannot taint your entire being nor his. No one is perfect at everything and you sure gave this one all you could. You'll always wonder "what if" but you can't change the past so there is no point dwelling on it. <BR/><BR/>As for trusting BJ again, I am definitely not the right person to ask! No one who has betrayed me Bunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12955817346800123054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-75055430797918035362008-04-04T15:07:00.000-05:002008-04-04T15:07:00.000-05:00What will it take to get me to relax with him and ...What will it take to get me to relax with him and trust him and believe him when he says that he will earn my trust back? <BR/><BR/> Time, in all it's simplicity, the answer is time. Unfortunately, we have very little control of how quickly it may or may not pass. I am sorry this has been so hard for you. Take strength in knowing there are better days to come.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com