tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post2265335469651494300..comments2023-09-09T08:58:16.226-05:00Comments on Deepest Darkest Thoughts: StressedTrueselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-45278185449884401662007-08-08T07:35:00.000-05:002007-08-08T07:35:00.000-05:00FL - Yeah, me too.Al - Good advice (particularly t...FL - Yeah, me too.<BR/><BR/>Al - Good advice (particularly that masturbate thing). Trying to hang in there without melting down.<BR/><BR/>Serenity - It's only a problem if it interferes with your life. My shyness, or maybe better worded my social anxiety, is a problem because it interferes with my ability to do simple things like make necessary phone calls, getting necessary things done, etc.<Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-20442300704583351312007-08-07T22:27:00.000-05:002007-08-07T22:27:00.000-05:00I have to agree with Al laddin. What a smart man....I have to agree with Al laddin. What a smart man. Trueself, you and I have similar shyness/phone phobia problems. I say masturbate a ton and indulge in whatever helps. Taking it a little bit at a time will help. Once you get one task done you'll feel awesome and have a bit more confidence to do the next thing. It's all downhill once you get started.miahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16558802688877647933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-53180013528776588802007-08-07T20:00:00.000-05:002007-08-07T20:00:00.000-05:00Shyness is not a problem; it is a personality trai...Shyness is not a problem; it is a personality trait.<BR/>I think that is what you need to work on more than couple's counselling which i cannot imagine is good for anything more than giving W false hope. If you care enough to go to counselling with him i can see him thinking you care enough to try to save your marriage. You are sending him mixed messages.<BR/>You need counselling on your own or Serenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01529721099212540848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-29294266516237702822007-08-07T15:23:00.000-05:002007-08-07T15:23:00.000-05:00Deep breaths, like finished last said. One step, o...Deep breaths, like finished last said. One step, one thing at a time. I can get overwhelmed and panicky and try to do everything at once. I end up in fear and frustration, not having done anything at all except scatter shit all over everywhere that I won't be able to find when I calm down because I frantically threw it "somewhere".<BR/><BR/>Stop. Breathe. Masturbate (always works for me!!!). Al Laddinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09394348512930627089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-33945277138770723872007-08-07T14:35:00.000-05:002007-08-07T14:35:00.000-05:00Deep breaths, deep breaths. Iknow you are in a bad...Deep breaths, deep breaths. Iknow you are in a bad spot. I just hope you find your way out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com