tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post2517619549753920307..comments2023-09-09T08:58:16.226-05:00Comments on Deepest Darkest Thoughts: Love/Hate of WomenTrueselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-23293900985539244672008-02-25T23:20:00.000-06:002008-02-25T23:20:00.000-06:00Emily - I find I'm also warming to women, or some ...Emily - I find I'm also warming to women, or some women anyway, as I get older.Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-71493729777629667502008-02-24T20:04:00.000-06:002008-02-24T20:04:00.000-06:00Women can be dark and complex creatures. I hardly...Women can be dark and complex creatures. I hardly ever used to have women as friends, mainly for that reason, but I'm warming a lot more to women as I get older.<BR/><BR/>Your dilemma isn't unusual. I've also known gay/bi men who are afraid of men.Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16960808094968837047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-47431712483661571362008-02-24T03:45:00.000-06:002008-02-24T03:45:00.000-06:00Fiona - You are absolutely right. I've been betra...Fiona - You are absolutely right. I've been betrayed by both men and women in my lifetime and trust is something I struggle with no matter who is involved. I will say though that in <B>friendships</B> I find that I trust men more than women. In <B>relationships</B> I trust neither.Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-60306406619722688732008-02-23T19:22:00.000-06:002008-02-23T19:22:00.000-06:00Trust and betrayal aren't gender-specific, they ar...Trust and betrayal aren't gender-specific, they are human traits. You can trust and be betrayed by a man as easily as by a woman, in my opinion.Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727596416170770024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-90019282497101250202008-02-23T00:24:00.000-06:002008-02-23T00:24:00.000-06:00Lill - You are quite welcome. I like it when I ca...Lill - You are quite welcome. I like it when I can post something meaty occasionally.Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-28073062013941384582008-02-22T17:43:00.000-06:002008-02-22T17:43:00.000-06:00Bunny, I agree with you re not trusting men. What'...Bunny, I agree with you re not trusting men. What's more, no-one would think anything of me, a twice divorced woman, saying I don't trust men even though I am still attracted to them. I think it's really a fairly normal situation for where I am at the moment. Hopefully not a life sentence though! So why call someone who says that about women? Weird, I think. Tru, I admire you so much for Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-17958573688457498752008-02-22T16:48:00.000-06:002008-02-22T16:48:00.000-06:00SM - Exactly. The burning desires care not for wh...SM - Exactly. The burning desires care not for what the brain may think.<BR/><BR/>Snow66 - Very insightful, thanks.<BR/><BR/>Bunny - Yeah, I don't so much trust men either. As friends I do, but in relationships not so much particularly lately.<BR/><BR/>SM (again) - Agreed.Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-22346118030524719522008-02-22T14:25:00.000-06:002008-02-22T14:25:00.000-06:00Note to bunny - I trust you on that last comment.Note to bunny - I trust you on that last comment.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-78953026139498387962008-02-22T12:05:00.000-06:002008-02-22T12:05:00.000-06:00I don't trust most men any farther than I could th...I don't trust most men any farther than I could throw them, but that has nothing - zero, zip, nada - to do with my sexual or romantic attraction to them. Two different critters right there. (Note please that I don't trust women any more than men. I practiced law for too long to trust ANYBODY.)Bunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12955817346800123054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-7226868107754236312008-02-22T09:04:00.000-06:002008-02-22T09:04:00.000-06:00Women, hard to understand, but not impossible. =)I...Women, hard to understand, but not impossible. =)<BR/><BR/>I think her meanness is a defense mechanism. She needs to see you as the “bad” party in the triangle in order to feel justified (not bad about herself) for her part in the betrayal.<BR/><BR/>She has been the other woman over and over for the past year or so, and repeatedly had her heart broken by men who have not chosen her.<BR/><BR/>I snow66https://www.blogger.com/profile/12347520138146780427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-15039479975062667312008-02-22T08:40:00.000-06:002008-02-22T08:40:00.000-06:00My wife and I have had discussions about why I wan...My wife and I have had discussions about why I want a woman when I seem to not like women (that statement would need a full post to cover I think). Anyway, even when my feelings toward the female gender are at their worst, my penis still works like it is supposed to, and isn't afraid to make sure I know it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com