tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post3243744366853878964..comments2023-09-09T08:58:16.226-05:00Comments on Deepest Darkest Thoughts: Will I Ever Grow Up?Trueselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-20993932415609059912007-09-03T11:36:00.000-05:002007-09-03T11:36:00.000-05:00Val - Yes, I do need to tap into some of your inne...Val - Yes, I do need to tap into some of your inner anger. I need to tap into something that would allow me to get the balls to leave.<BR/><BR/>BJ - You are right.<BR/><BR/>SP - Right on target, as usual.<BR/><BR/>Fiona - Yes, making sure N is cared for is number 1 priority whether W and I are together or not. I'm assuming that W would have him on alternating weekends and that would give me Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-31454124897189219052007-09-02T20:15:00.000-05:002007-09-02T20:15:00.000-05:00He's trying to control you. And you shouldn't nee...He's trying to control you. And you shouldn't need permission to do what you like, merely a plan for looking after N when you are out. He's probably jealous that you are forging ahead with new friendships and at the same time afraid you will find so much more out there for you to want to keep on your path of separating from him.<BR/><BR/>But, as for being on your own and doing your own thing, Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727596416170770024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-55190109807817094572007-09-01T17:08:00.000-05:002007-09-01T17:08:00.000-05:00Because you're afraid and you know that. You're s...Because you're afraid and you know that. You're still getting something out of your relationship (if we can call it that) with W and as long as you will, you will remain there. You have the power to decide. You and only you. Like they are your fears and only yours.stinkypawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04418558395508830375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-91485146322233155622007-08-31T21:49:00.000-05:002007-08-31T21:49:00.000-05:00You do not have to justify yourself to a man you c...You do not have to justify yourself to a man you can barely tolerate. I agree with val too.Sandmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05987840908368680016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-63931424119432962752007-08-31T11:04:00.000-05:002007-08-31T11:04:00.000-05:00Oh, man -- OF COURSE you have the right to take "l...Oh, man -- OF COURSE you have the right to take "less than 24 hrs" for yourself?!?!? WTF??<BR/>I think W is just grasping at straws, whatever means of guilt or obligation, legal duty, etc. to keep you around...<BR/>It makes me so mad I am reduced to cussin' & spittin'!<BR/>@*%&$#*#$@!!<BR/>[Perhaps if you tap into your anger you will find the courage to leave -- here, let me siphon some off yourValhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03152215204773184788noreply@blogger.com