tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post3244153988103770509..comments2023-09-09T08:58:16.226-05:00Comments on Deepest Darkest Thoughts: MYOB Trueself MYOBTrueselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-90642684717981081682008-05-12T00:07:00.000-05:002008-05-12T00:07:00.000-05:00Val - Thanks for weighing in on this. After your ...Val - Thanks for weighing in on this. After your comment and Bunny's it helped me see the need for me to stay informed for N's sake. All my focus had been was that it wasn't my business anymore, and it wouldn't be if (a) we didn't have N and (b) we were already divorced. As it is, I have every right to know what's going on.Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-11756632523699148322008-05-10T07:55:00.000-05:002008-05-10T07:55:00.000-05:00I understand that "gnawing curiousity" feeling als...I understand that "gnawing curiousity" feeling also -- but Bunny's right; you must still remain involved in W's wheeling-n'-dealing since it may affect his ability to provide support for N.<BR/>(sounds fishy to me too; not to mention while you're still legally married you **MIGHT** carry some degree of financial responsibility?!? => consult an atty ASAP!)Valhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03152215204773184788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-46389019442257549502008-05-09T11:11:00.000-05:002008-05-09T11:11:00.000-05:00Bunny - Good point. Very good point. I'm sure W ...Bunny - Good point. Very good point. I'm sure W won't agree, but I think you're right that I do deserve to know something about it.Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-24156039225063279052008-05-09T06:28:00.000-05:002008-05-09T06:28:00.000-05:00On W: It’s not really my business anymore now that...On W:<I> It’s not really my business anymore now that we’re separated</I><BR/><BR/>Of course it is your business, although indirectly. You and W are co-parents to N. If he gets taken for a ride financially, that hurts N. If it affects N, good or bad, that <I>is</I> your business. Plus I'm sure you still care about him in a general way that you wouldn't want to see W hurt either.Bunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12955817346800123054noreply@blogger.com