tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post4910694882406310141..comments2023-09-09T08:58:16.226-05:00Comments on Deepest Darkest Thoughts: What I Wish I Had the Guts to SayTrueselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-80498765981493663762008-07-31T09:22:00.000-05:002008-07-31T09:22:00.000-05:00Karin - Hang in there and don't kill him....Good a...Karin - <I>Hang in there and don't kill him....</I><BR/>Good advice. I'll try to keep it in mind. ;-)<BR/><BR/>Summer - No, I haven't told him. I'm trying to "keep the peace." I don't know at what point though I'll decide that the price for peace is too high.<BR/><BR/>Fuse - Yes it is very sad. The saddest part to me is the message it sends to N. I can deal with it for myself so much betterTrueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-1676858154644128962008-07-30T12:58:00.000-05:002008-07-30T12:58:00.000-05:00Ah, welcome to the wonderful world of "co-par...Ah, welcome to the wonderful world of "co-parenting"!<BR/>Yes to all of the above: he's doing it to be passive-aggressive, to fuck around w/YOUR schedule, to exert whatever control he can in his lessened sphere of influence.<BR/>Just get a good plan hammered out w/a mediator & STICK TO IT - try to include every possible detail.Valhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03152215204773184788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-23695100487521992592008-07-29T09:21:00.000-05:002008-07-29T09:21:00.000-05:00I know exactly what you are going through and I th...I know exactly what you are going through and I think it is going to take the courts to make W stop this crap. My husbands x used to try that crap all the time. She would also schedule things for the weekends when we were suppose to have the children and then tell us that we could either drive to where they live and attend the function or forfit our weekends with the children...or David could go Karin's Kornerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00398692677374241124noreply@blogger.com