tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post5793337669086778022..comments2023-09-09T08:58:16.226-05:00Comments on Deepest Darkest Thoughts: SurvivedTrueselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-62381515605288131522007-06-22T08:32:00.000-05:002007-06-22T08:32:00.000-05:00Mia - Thank you. I know you're in our corner. BT...Mia - Thank you. I know you're in our corner. BTW, have a great time this weekend. ;-)<BR/><BR/>Serenity - No problem on the unsolicited advice. I'm trying (really trying) not to muddy the waters, but I'm sure I'm not always successful. I do try to focus on what will be best for N and for me. Lately, I just keep coming back around to the fact that we've tried counseling but things don't Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-58028063441453603592007-06-21T22:27:00.000-05:002007-06-21T22:27:00.000-05:00I know what this is going to sound like, but I don...I know what this is going to sound like, but I don't mean it to. I'm sorry in advance. What a promising way to start a comment!<BR/><BR/>Anyway, what exactly did you survive...dinner with your husband? I agree that both of you (you and BJ) have to take unpleasent steps to leave behind your old life. He's done it. Are you still struggling with following suit? <BR/><BR/>See, it did come across Steffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12123360272639899240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-5894247031236337582007-06-21T18:56:00.000-05:002007-06-21T18:56:00.000-05:00It's just not your time yet TS. But it IS your ba...It's just not your time yet TS. But it IS your ball, not W's. You'll bring it into play when it feels right for you. Nothing and noone can preempt that.Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727596416170770024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-82651664372628964872007-06-21T14:57:00.000-05:002007-06-21T14:57:00.000-05:00At least my blowup/meltdown was of the sudden, exp...At least my blowup/meltdown was of the sudden, expectedly/unexpected, cataclysmic/apocalyptic variety.<BR/><BR/>This teeth grinding, tension inducing, waiting for the other shoe to drop kind is so tough to deal with and live with...but sometimes it's the way. Not the best way...not the only way...but "a" way and the way it is.<BR/><BR/>You're dealing with it TS, and methinks better than YOU thinkAl Laddinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09394348512930627089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-12940287531817559082007-06-21T14:02:00.000-05:002007-06-21T14:02:00.000-05:00Don't assume he has put two and two together. If h...Don't assume he has put two and two together. If he is starting from a position of not knowing a damn thing it is going to take awhile for things to dawn on him. And even then he will have to be willing to let them dawn on him before he does anything dramatic. My guess is he does not want to do anything that will change the status quo. Which means guess what, it's all up to you, as always, to getSerenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01529721099212540848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-9412714141333231652007-06-21T12:07:00.000-05:002007-06-21T12:07:00.000-05:00I'm thinking about you guys. This is the beginnin...I'm thinking about you guys. This is the beginning of everything moving towards your incredible future.miahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16558802688877647933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-70205555728588500282007-06-21T10:53:00.000-05:002007-06-21T10:53:00.000-05:00Well yes, FB, I believe what this says is that we ...Well yes, FB, I believe what this says is that we must both either be more attentive to our blog reading or lead less explosive lives. LOL<BR/><BR/>I'm hanging in there. Hope you are doing the same. Looking forward to an update from you when you get time.Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-43413656979883921792007-06-21T10:35:00.000-05:002007-06-21T10:35:00.000-05:00Oh heavens! This time it's me away for a few days ...Oh heavens! This time it's me away for a few days and coming back to find my blog friend in that old dream/nightmare situation. I wish I could offer some words of wisdom and experience, but I'm not sure I'm handling it well enough myself to help anyone else! Dignity is a good word to remember. Yes, stick with dignity. <BR/>I do feel for you having that possible phone-call to answer - even if you freebirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17745492522820347949noreply@blogger.com