tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post7106382093548024898..comments2023-09-09T08:58:16.226-05:00Comments on Deepest Darkest Thoughts: I Always Blather Too Much When Emotions Run HighTrueselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-71194865870381335352007-03-14T12:42:00.000-05:002007-03-14T12:42:00.000-05:00OB - There's just not much here to like about me. ...OB - There's just not much here to like about me. I don't think I've ever liked myself, not even at a very young age.<BR/><BR/>Fiona - Very hard sticking to this one right now. That's one reason I put it out here, to make it harder for me to waffle yet again.<BR/><BR/>Serenity - Me? Hard on myself? I often don't feel that I'm hard enough. Seriously.<BR/><BR/>FB - "I don't think anyone would Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-30775319614677792732007-03-14T09:13:00.000-05:002007-03-14T09:13:00.000-05:00You are not the villain and everyone else (includi...You are not the villain and everyone else (including BJ ) is not the hero. I know it can feel that way, ( I have been feeling that way a lot as of late) You have to take responsibility for your actions but you need to let others take their own as well. best wishes True.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-10101043025465628912007-03-14T07:44:00.000-05:002007-03-14T07:44:00.000-05:00Actually, I'm kind of wondering who you picture as...Actually, I'm kind of wondering who you picture as berating you. It's hard to see how they could say anything worse to you than you say to yourself.<BR/><BR/>What if you said something else to yourself? What if you said, "I am making some very tough choices here when there is no clear or easy answer. And yet, I'm still managing to think through all the implications, including for people other Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16960808094968837047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-20425426685752706242007-03-14T06:37:00.000-05:002007-03-14T06:37:00.000-05:00I feel really sad for you (in fact, I cried real t...I feel really sad for you (in fact, I cried real tears for you when I read your latest posts!). Whichever decision you make - you will probably wish that you had made the other one.<BR/><BR/>Nobody can tell you what to do, least of all me. All I can say is that if you stay it will be a very unselfish act and I believe that we are rewarded for being unselfish. I don't believe that your Seekerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12182355650129723929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-25255541917642975672007-03-14T05:42:00.000-05:002007-03-14T05:42:00.000-05:00Oh yes, I recognise the 'no win' situation - I'm i...Oh yes, I recognise the 'no win' situation - I'm in one myself, so I can only feel for you, dear TS.<BR/><BR/>"Too weak to stand up to those who would criticize me..." I don't think anyone would be criticising you as much as YOU would! Which is exactly why you couldn't go through with it. (Been there too and I feel your pain.)<BR/>I'm sure you can turn this around and be positive - you have to - freebirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17745492522820347949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-41045077696867745982007-03-14T00:27:00.000-05:002007-03-14T00:27:00.000-05:00Gawd, and they tell me I'M hard on myself. Some de...Gawd, and they tell me I'M hard on myself. <BR/>Some decisions are going to feel no-win no matter how you spin them. That's just this messy life we have. But even though it's hard that doesn't make it not worthwhile. Look for the unexpected path, the unique-to-your-situation set of choices. You can make this all evolve the way that feels right to you and that works for you. All of you. It does Serenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01529721099212540848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-75760540012241200892007-03-13T19:48:00.000-05:002007-03-13T19:48:00.000-05:00You're making a choice. All along the way you've ...You're making a choice. All along the way you've made choices. To be with W, to leave W, to love BJ, to go back to W. They are all choices hon and they are yours. It's hard making them, harder still sticking to them. But always remember, they are yours to make.<BR/><BR/>I wish you a loving journey.Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727596416170770024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-54477650490547036172007-03-13T18:43:00.000-05:002007-03-13T18:43:00.000-05:00Hi Lady, its one thing to perceive our faults. Se...Hi Lady, its one thing to perceive our faults. <BR/><BR/>Self ahte is a different matter.<BR/><BR/>Please dont hate you.<BR/><BR/>Yuo have no reason to hate you!<BR/><BR/>I am not sure if you even have reson to be disappointed in you!?<BR/><BR/>HUG, an dPAX to you, plese go easy on you!!oldbearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03192748970108799675noreply@blogger.com