tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post7749725078569024434..comments2023-09-09T08:58:16.226-05:00Comments on Deepest Darkest Thoughts: STFU, Good Advice for ManyTrueselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-56361993992060954522008-12-16T12:22:00.000-06:002008-12-16T12:22:00.000-06:00Serenity - No, it probably isn't jealousy in the s...Serenity - No, it probably isn't jealousy in the sense of wanting him back. Yes, boundaries, my therapist and I were just discussing that very same point.<BR/><BR/>Fuse - I think he's trying to hurt me like I hurt him, but I don't know for sure.<BR/><BR/>Cocotte - Weird, yeah that describes W.<BR/><BR/>Val - Such a shame that it is only fantasy to have grown up conversations between adults, but Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-41040463000875359152008-12-14T08:02:00.000-06:002008-12-14T08:02:00.000-06:00[word verification: "burap", not the mo...[word verification: "burap", not the most poetic!]<BR/>I guess I'M still all hung up on the fantasy of MY ex calling to communicate/interact w/me like two grown-up PARENTS, acting in the best interests of their CHILD... Instead of treating everything w/elaborate subterfuge & manipulations, coercing me into "compromises" (which are actually just Val giving M his way) Valhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03152215204773184788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-49557093686729024322008-12-13T14:08:00.000-06:002008-12-13T14:08:00.000-06:00I think it's weird that he calls you so much. It ...I think it's weird that he calls you so much. It sends mixed messages, that's for sure.Bijouxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11577723506036164914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-49103870033370955522008-12-13T12:25:00.000-06:002008-12-13T12:25:00.000-06:00Seems like he wants to keep rubbing it in that he ...Seems like he wants to keep rubbing it in that he has a girlfriend, and/or he has misconstrued your concern into thinking you still care for him maybe...<BR/><BR/>Messy stuff for sure...Fusionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05478465297213819613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25964040.post-30547421436711238142008-12-12T23:03:00.000-06:002008-12-12T23:03:00.000-06:00Are you sure it's jealousy? I mean, would you want...Are you sure it's jealousy? I mean, would you want him back? I'm thinking no. You may have to clarify boundaries for W because he doesn't seem to know what they are. For your own peace of mind, you really don't need to know anything other than what affects N. And W's opinion of Q does not fall into that category. Ugh! :)Serenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01529721099212540848noreply@blogger.com