Wednesday, February 27, 2008

When It Rains, It Pours

K left me an offline IM message tonight letting me know that he's going back to church and is no longer comfortable with our relationship.

Boy, I must be the single most undesirable woman in the western hemisphere.

Yay me.

7 comments:

Andrea said...

I can completely relate. For the first time in twenty years, the phrase, I really want a smoke flittered across my mind. Followed by, I am completely done, done, done..... Here's to better days.

The Silent Male said...

Sounds to me like K is really unhappy with himself in some way. So he goes about being unhappy with himself and trying desperately to find some kind of happiness, even if it hurts others.
If I am right, he'll keep changing until he figures out a way to accept himself for who he is.

Drama said...

*Hugs* Bigger and better things are on the horizon...just hang on.

Trueself said...

Andrea - To better days. ::raises glass filled with strong spirits::

SM - Hmm, very different take on the situation than I had, but worth pondering. You could be right.

Drama - I'm trying to hang on. . . at least until this weekend when you can pound some sense into me, 'k?

Bunny said...

He's a fool. And an ass for not telling you at least on the phone if not in person.

2amsomewhere said...

Within the extra marital relationship discussion communities, there is a term that gets used in instances like this: guilt (gender appropriate reference to monarch). In your situation, K would be know as a "guilt king", such animals are viewed with strong contempt within those communities.

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2amsomewhere

Trueself said...

Bunny - You know, I'm getting just a teeny tiny bit tired of the online kiss off. Coward's way out.

2am - I didn't even know such things existed as "extra marital relationship discussion communities." Sometimes I am so naive.