Deepest Darkest Thoughts: Over

Saturday, September 08, 2007

Over

Remember when a whole year or more of the TV show Dallas was just a big dream and Patrick Duffy stepped out of the shower? Yeah, well, my life has taken a similarly weird and interesting turn. This past year? Never happened. Nobody fell in love. Nobody ever expected to live happily ever after. Nobody ever considered leaving her husband.

Nope, it’s a new day. I woke up this week, and the only one getting out of my shower is W.

Saddest thing is that I have to mourn this all by myself. I have nobody’s shoulder upon which to cry, and I can’t cry in front of anyone in real life. No, the saddest thing is that he didn’t sound nearly as upset about it as I am. Guess I never really meant that much to him anyway which I was starting to suspect anyway which is really what led to the end. No rebuttals to any of my reasons why we shouldn’t continue. No counters to anything I said. Damn it. I was so hoping I was wrong, but I wasn’t.

After grieving for a bit I’ll see if I can figure out where to go from here.

2 comments:

freebird said...: Oh Trueself. Today I can say more than ever - I feel your pain. Just know there's someone out here empathising and caring. I do so know all about that hidden mourning. All I can offer is a virtual shoulder and big hugs.; 9/09/2007 5:28 AM
Trueself said...: FB - I know you do, and while I feel that I am probably closer to Mr. E's equivalent than yours let me assure you that it is just as painful on the other side of the equation.; 9/10/2007 9:02 AM

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Who's Who in Trueself's World

Trueself (aka TS) - Me, a fat nerdy middle-aged widow with a great job (provided the company stays in business), a great son, and a messed up life
N - My son, my reason for living, the greatest gift God ever gave me besides His own Son
J - My high school sweetheart with whom I share love and the occasional rendezvous
W - My husband, for better or worse; I took care of him until the day he died.
Freud - My therapist
Dr K - My psychiatrist, the one who medicates me when the talk therapy with Freud just isn't enough
Boss - My previous supervisor who used to scare the shit out of me and now I only find mildly annoying on most days.
Snow White - A coworker, also psycho
Betty - A coworker who is practically perfect in every way and more than a little annoying to the rest of us mere mortals
FU - My brother; the initials here may or may not represent what I would like to tell him most of the time
FU2 - FU's wife, my sister-in-law
Bella and Ella - My two nieces, daughters of FU and FU2
Gladys - My next door neighbor whom I've named after the nosy neighbor on Bewitched. They're two of a kind.
RB - Temporary housemate who lived with us while she was separated from her husband.
TS2 - Former housemate who just so happens to have the same first name as I do. She drove W & N crazy, and sometimes me a little bit too, but the extra income from her rent sure helped.
M - FWB from early fall 2009 through spring 2010 when he moved a couple of hours away
BJ (aka Z) - The man I loved who just didn't turn out to be the right one no matter how much I loved him
D - A former coworker and former friend who is in very many ways completely opposite of me. Why we get along is anyone's guess, but we did. . . until we didn't.
C - My bestest best friend I thought, but we've drifted apart
Q - W's girlfriend while he and I were separated
H, K, & S - Guys I met online who shared with me various levels of adult type fun from time to time
G & L - Guys I met online that went nowhere
R & V - Women I met online that went nowhere
T - J's second ex-wife
If an actual name is used instead of just a letter it is generally not the real name but a name made up to protect anonymity.